Sebenar-benarnya Kaum Adam.....

Kaum Adam diciptakan untuk sebenar-benarnya menjaga Kaum Hawa bukan?. Dalam beberapa ajaran agama di negeri ini diceritakan bahwa Hawa adalah bagian dari rusuk Adam yang hilang, yang sepatutnya diperlakukan dengan welas asih. Adam adalah nakhoda bahtera kehidupan bersama yang semestinya tegas, mempunyai wibawa untuk dihargai. Welas asih seperti insting manusia yang bisa membedakan mana yang tulus, mana yang tidak tulus. Adam seharusnya melindungi Hawa dengan sekuat tenaga, bukan selalu membuat menagis.Sebenar-benarnya kaum Adam itu bijak dalam menyelesaikan segala bola permasalahan yang ibarat benang kusut. Adam itu memiliki hati yang hangat, bukannya hati yang tak dinyana beku.

Ketika kaum Adam, hanya memperlakukanmu sebatas nafsu, tinggalkanlah....

Ketika kaum Adam, hanya menjadikanmu fase permainannya, sudahilah....

Ketika kaum Adam, hanya berlari padamu saat suka, enyahkanlah...

Ketika kaum Adam, hanya membuatmu menagis, hapuslah air matamu segera....

Sebenar-benarnya kaum Adam adalah yang menyayangi kaum Hawa tanpa batas, tanpa cacat....

Sebenar-benarnya kaum Adam adalah manusia yang betanggung jawab atas segala tindakannya....

Sebenar-benarnya kaum Adam adalah sepasang gerbang yang menyambut duka dan lara dengan tenangnya..

Dan sebenar-benarnya kaum Adam adalah hati yang selalu utuh dengan segala yang tak lagi utuh...

Dan jika kalian memang lelaki titisan kaum Adam, tolong perlakukanlah kami kaum Hawa seperti layaknya sepasang rusuk yang apabila ia menghilang, engkau tak sempurna...

Jangan perlakukan kami layaknya sampah, yang bisa kalian buang begitu manis yang kalian hisap habis sudah..

Layaknya lebah, yang tak lagi bisa menghasilkan madu

Layaknya botol yang sudah habis isinya, kalian lempar kejalanan

Kami kaum Hawa pun memiliki hati dan bukan sebatas objek dan boneka kalian

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